Many years ago, I recall visiting a good friend in New York who I had not seen in years. She and I met while on active duty and corresponded very infrequently. I let her know I would be attending a conference and would love to share a meal. We met for breakfast at a nice restaurant and, after joyful reminiscing and boisterous laughter, and three visits from the waitress to take our order, we took a look at the menu.
"Oh my," I exclaimed. "No grits on the menu! How can I begin my day without a serving of grits?"
Of course, she laughed and said, "Ava, try the cream of wheat."
Nearly fainting, I replied, "Cream of wheat is like wallpaper paste!"
Enter 'ethnocentrism' — and yes, she and I remain very good friends.
Ethnocentrism is defined as the evaluation of other cultures according to preconceptions originating in the standards and customs of one's own culture. While my breakfast story may seem trivial, it exemplifies ethnocentric behavior replete with bias. Unfortunately, we unknowingly carry this same predisposition into the workplace, fueling less than favorable employee engagement and experience outcomes — specifically in retention, advocacy, motivation, and pride.
Henry Kissinger once said, "The task of the leader is to get his people from where they are to where they have not been." Having an ethnocentric style of interaction and leadership is a surefire way of hindering the best intentions to engage members of the workforce and create other leaders (which is the point of leadership).
According to 2020 United States Census data, there are more than 200 new and detailed race and ethnic groups. Moreover, for the first time in history, we have six generations actively present in the workforce:
Ponterotto & Pedersen (1993) state the following: “Both ethnocentrism and prejudice interfere with our ability to understand and appreciate the human experience of others.” The Leader-Member Exchange Leadership Theory further warns leaders to avoid letting their conscious and/or unconscious biases influence who is invited into the in-group (i.e., only mingling with those who share our cultural preferences).
How, then, does a high-performing organizational leader create and sustain an exceptional employee experience while considering the differing values and assumptions of all employees? While this question may sound daunting, it is doable. My quick answer: Meet people where they are and remain curious.
Either Aristotle or Socrates is reputed to have said, "To know thyself is the beginning of wisdom." The origin of the quote, however interesting that might be, is not nearly as important as the underlying point. Effective leaders are self-aware of their strengths and opportunities to be more excellent. Moreover, they are open to feedback that enhances authentic leadership and character development.
Cultural competency significantly impacts employee engagement in several key ways:
Building cultural competency is not a one-time achievement — it requires ongoing dialogue and understanding. This is where a comprehensive employee listening strategy becomes invaluable. By implementing strategic listening channels throughout the employee lifecycle, organizations can better understand how different cultural groups experience the workplace and identify areas where cultural competency needs strengthening.
An effective listening strategy goes beyond traditional engagement surveys. It should include multiple touchpoints and methodologies, from lifecycle surveys that can capture cultural experiences during key moments (like onboarding or promotion) to focus groups that allow for deeper exploration of cultural dynamics. This multi-channel approach ensures organizations capture both quantitative metrics and qualitative insights about how different cultural groups experience the workplace.
Strategic listening also helps identify gaps in cultural competency before they become significant issues. By regularly gathering feedback about diversity, equity, inclusion, belonging, and cultural respect, organizations can spot emerging challenges and address them proactively. This continuous feedback loop is especially prized in today's multi-generational, culturally diverse workplace, where different groups may have varying needs and expectations.
Most importantly, a strategic listening program demonstrates an organization's commitment to hearing, understanding, and acting on diverse perspectives. When employees see that their cultural experiences and feedback are not just heard but acted upon, it strengthens trust and reinforces the organization's commitment to cultural competency.
Cultural competency enables leaders to foster a work environment where diversity is valued and every employee feels they belong. This inclusivity directly correlates with higher engagement levels as employees feel respected, understood, and empowered to contribute fully to their roles and the organization.
Different is not bad; it is just different. And differences can be very helpful when it comes to driving innovation through collaboration.
And in case you're wondering — I ordered that bowl of cream of wheat and dressed it up with a dash of salt, pepper, butter, and cheese. It wasn’t bad at all. Who knew!
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